It began around 1994 with my first mistake. She was having multiple affairs for an extended period of time. I had my suspicions, but when she was confronted it was always denial & said everything was my fault. I really want to say her name but let’s call her ice. Ice was running to bars, severe computer use & sneaking out at night. (This was before the cell texting craze) And at the same time severely neglecting my 2 sons. For example, once I came home from work and ice was at the computer having cyber sex & my son “k” was in the crib trying to catch his breath from crying so hard and for so long. There was 2 clobbered bottles in the bed beside “k”.I grabbed “k” and his diaper was completely full of poop, urine and blood from his severe diaper rash, from not being changed for 24 hrs.I knew this by counting diapers everyday to make sure “k” was changed which was almost never! Another time ice took “d”to a hotel for a sexual meeting. ”D” was taking a shower and walked out to see them WRESTLING as he put it! I learned this from taking “D” to a counselor.

I had enough!!! I love James Bond movies. So I went to radio shack and asked for spy things, WOW they had a phone tap for landlines. I recorded all calls to my home for a long period of time. Then I got on line looking for ways to check the computer & email. Back then it was called hackersclub.com and it was a very interesting site. It said to exactly copy the address bar from temp Internet files on ice’s computer, enter this online and Walla straight into hotmail bypassing all passwords straight to incoming mail. I copied all of the emails. On it were sexual chats with men & very young boys and on the line tap were calls to multiple men about their sexual encounters and next meetings. I asked for a divorce but I let ice stay in my home for a few months, so I could get everything to keep my boys with me (from the get go I made a personal promise that my kids come first) Even one night ice came in drunk to my room wanting me to video tape her sexually relieving herself. I did and made a copy of video. When I finally confronted ice with everything, she denied it all. I said too late I have evidence and when the boys get older Ill show them the truth. I had enough to get sole custody but I listened way too much to my family and attorneys, saying “she’s the mother, no way can you get the kids in court” stupid me I listened. I told ice I wanted joint custody, no child support with me getting boys every other week. Or I would take her to court & send all this gross truth to all her family and friends…I got everything except the washer and dryer!!

I waited 2 years & my life consisted of nothing but work & my great boys. But I got lonely and made another big mistake. I realize now if you make the same mistake twice, the second time is usually worse. And was it ever. But this time I had some knowledge and experience from the hell with ice.
The biggest mistake started around 2002.With the new big thing of texting and cell phones! This mistake is called jezebel. That name fits perfectly. By this time I had son #3 with jezebel “g”.
In all places I met jezebel in a bar. I got the, my ex-boyfriend treated me so horrible story, my father is an alcoholic & I have a horrible family. I really did believe all her horror stories. Until later when I found out 99 percent of her stories were lies. (By the way, I did have a bar streak for a few months when I didn’t have my boys, I hate bars but I was so bored)

I was working extreme hrs at my former job. (I’ve quit that line of work since then; I went from30hr to 7.75hr to have better hrs for my kids) I wasn’t home enough to see what was happening. I didn’t listen enough to “d”. I was way too wrapped up into work and bills.
My kids were treated horrible and I mean horrible. I found out all too late. Extreme mental abuse, things throwed at them, cussed out, degraded, extremely controlled. My oldest didn’t want to come over any more. And for a long time “d” and “k” didn’t! So ICE started getting child support.
Jezebels mother moved into my house. Jezebel’s and her mother extremely abused Jezebels daughter! And to top it all off I was only one putting food on the table for 7 people.

Now the juicy stuff, that i do have proof on. I kicked her mother out. Then beginning in Nov 2007 Jezebel was texting me 24/7? She had moved in with her mother. She always wanted money, to go somewhere, sex, or was sending me nude body pictures of herself (I still have all of these txt messages). Jezebel was having multiple affairs and she was at the bar five days a week. However she would never let me have "G". Jezebel was even sneaking out in the middle of the night at her mother's, in order to have sex with men.

One day Jezebel bragged to me about having phone sex with 16 year old boys and the explicit revealing of the boys naked pictures to her friends. She even once involved her daughter in the phone sex, her daughter 12 years of age at the time. Jezebel even went so far as to let her daughter have a sexual relationship with a 29 year old man so Jezebel could also get his attention. My son "G", 4 years old at the time, caught Jezebel in the bathroom, nude, having sex with another women.

Jezebel and I filed for divorce AUG 2007.Jezabel & her daughter moved in wither mother. We filed joint BUT I wasn’t allowed to see or pick up”g”at all just days after filing. I wrote a letter to the judge telling what Jezebel was doing. I got a court date 1 month later...In the mean time I was served an EPO by my ex. I went to court & proved jezebel was stalking ME! Sept 8 2007.Jezabel was found in contempt and I got more visitation than state guidelines! SEPT 24 2007.These 2 BIG loses on her part infuriated Jezebel to the point that she filed horrible lies against me with cp for her daughter, OCT 1 2007. (Later I found out this is the new tactic against fathers) jezebel asked me to meet her, stupid me I did, after our meeting I was severely harassed and my life was threatened by the city police, who I found out went to school with Jezebel OCT9 2007. I found out jezebel was secretly taking “g” to a counselor to get “g” away from me. I called and met with him, told the real truth and the counselor said he no longer needed to see”g”. On jan 8 2008… Jezebel wouldn’t let me see”g” again, because the dr (not I) ordered drug test for”G”JAN21 2008. My truck windshield was broken out and my apartment was broken into, all “g” pictures and memorabilia were stolen nothing else FEB 28 2008. Jezebels current boyfriend was caught at my home in the tree line stalking me. MARCH 1 2008 her boyfriend was served with an EPO from me march10 2008 Jezebel put epo against me on my son & her daughter. MARCH 11 2008 MORE RETALIATION!! Jezebel's police friend broke the law calling and harassing me again on March 14, 2008. I picked up my son and he had a black eye May 19, 2008. Jezebel took "G" to ER saying I hit him May 24, 2008. "G" tells me of Jezebel and boyfriend "wrestling" in bed June 2008. Jezebel calls law on me, they came to my home on Fathers day, saying I was to give "G" to her, I told law no, I'm going by the guidelines and will give "G" to Jezebel when its time June 15,2008. I took LIE DETECTOR on lies to cp; of course I passed MARCH 24 2008. I finally got to court to prove Jezebel in contempt again on keeping “G” away from me. WON, Jezebel had to pay my attorney fees. APRIL 4 2008 and yet again for the 3rd time Jezebel was found in contempt for not letting me see “G” for summer visitations, judge gave me rest of summer Also the judge ordered me to stop paying support till further notice JULY 22 2008 Jezebel took “G” to cp for more lies that I stopped JULY27 MORE RETALIATION Jezebel fired her 2nd attorney JULY 27 2008 then I asked for an administrative hearing with cp, proved Jezebel and daughter made it all up, everything was expunged JAN 09. At the same time I was going to court on custody of “G”. I was awarded sole custody and i never asked for it, JAN 9 2009.Imeditally Jezebel filed amotion for a court hearing saying I was "neglecting” my son and that I moved to far away. There is so much more, but this is enough. Thanks to my attorney, family and the one who always stuck by me no matter what GOD!!!!!